Ryan and I sat down yesterday morning and decided it's time to lay off our addiction of movie watching. Weird huh?! Who would think you could love movies so much that you forget to talk to one another about work and what's been going on when you're away from each other?? Well, that's us. Sometimes it's Ryan that just HAS to watch a movie before going to bed. But other times I insist we cuddle up on the couch and let our minds drift into a lovely story about someone else or perhaps a mind boggling tale of something freaky or weird. We both find it watching a new movie very enjoyable.
But, with the wedding only 108 days away, both of us working so much and trying to keep afloat we decided we need to wind down in the evening by sitting across from each other and talking. Ryan said he wants to know how I'm doing emotionally with all that is going on.Which means a lot to me. He even said, sometimes he may not know what to say but he'll listen.
Last night proved to be a success on the talking vs. movie watching endeavor. After a rough morning of silence and some tears (on my part ofcourse) we ended the night wonderfully. Then I once again got caught up with thinking about how I am going to spend the rest of my life with Ryan and how amazing it is that he chose me out of all the people in the world and I cried (again). Happy tears this time.
I keep forgetting that communication is the key. (Thanks again, Mom.) And we need to keep talking to each other. I feel so much stronger as a person and as a couple after our evening together. All though I still have a million and one wedding thoughts going through my head I feel more peaceful about what we are going into.
Keep Loving. (And talking!)
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